Almost every parent asks this at the feedback stage
The worry about labelling is natural — but the evidence consistently points the other way. Children who understand their diagnosis almost always do better than those kept in the dark. The label does not create the difficulty; it explains it. And explanations are profoundly relieving for children who have been quietly wondering why certain things feel harder for them.
For younger children, frame it around brain differences rather than deficits: “Your brain is wired in a really interesting way — it is brilliant at some things and needs a bit more support with others.” For older children and teens, many feel immediate relief — finally having a name for something they have struggled with silently.
Avoid framing it as something that needs to be fixed. The goal is self-understanding. We will always spend time with you in the feedback session discussing how to have this conversation with your specific child.