Harley Mind Care

How do I prepare my child for the assessment? Should I tell them what it is for?

Parents ask this in the days before their appointment

We recommend being honest with your child, calibrated to their age. Children who are prepared tend to engage better and feel less anxious on the day than those brought along without understanding why.

For younger children (under 10): keep it simple. “We are going to meet a doctor who helps understand how different brains work. They will want to talk to you and ask you some questions.” You do not need to use the word ADHD unless they already know it.

For older children and teens: most already suspect something. Saying “we are going to see someone who can help us understand why some things feel harder for you than they seem to for others” tends to land well. Teens respond better to being included in the process rather than having it done to them.

One important note: please do not coach your child on what to say or try to suppress their behaviour beforehand. We need to see an accurate picture of how they are, not a performance.

Do not worry if your child is nervous or unhappy about coming. Our consultants are experienced at working with children who are not thrilled to be there.

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